Dienstag, 13. Juli 2010

How To Tell if a Girl Likes You

Women often seem like a big mystery. It is difficult for a guy to know if a girl likes you or if she is just playing games. There are no easy answers because all women are not the same. Still, there are a few steps you can take to find out if a girl likes you.
  1. Watch her body language. If you don't pay attention to body language, or haven't figured out what to look for, you're missing a ton of indicators! An interested girl may lean close when speaking to you. She may smile when you look at her. Notice if she touches you often, just brushing your arm or touching your shoulder. Does she look into your eyes when you're talking to her? Does she fidget with her hair while you're around? These are telltale signs of attraction that you can look out for.
  2. Pay attention to how she listens. When you talk, does she focus on you or do her eyes wander? An interested girl gives her attention when you tell a story. She likely asks your opinion and listens to the answer.
  3. Talk to her. You can’t get to know someone without talking to them and spending time together. If you want to know if she likes you, you must be neither overbearing nor afraid of rejection. For a successful approach, lighten the mood with humor. If you can make a woman laugh, half of the battle is over. 
  4. Notice how often she calls or texts you just to say good night. If you are friends and exchange text messages or phone calls, pay attention to when she contacts you. Does she only call when she’s bored or all her friends are out? Or does she call you just to say hello in the morning or wish you good night? If she calls because she is thinking of you, she’s interested. If she calls because she wants something, she may be playing a game or just looking for a friend when she’s alone. Meanwhile, if you are texting, you should check out this great guide for texting women.
  5. Watch her with her friends. Some girls seem to have a different personality when they are with their friends. If the girl you have your eye on seems great when you are alone but you don’t like her as much when she’s with her friends, you may want to stay away. One of two things may be happening. Either she is easily manipulated to make other people (like her friends) happy or she doesn’t know what she wants and that includes what she wants with you.
  6. Invite her for coffee. Some girls just won’t make the first move. She might not flirt or ask you out but she will respond to an invitation. If the girl you desire says yes she definitely likes you, but it may just be as a friend, go back to step three and talk to her. Listen to what she has to say.
  7. Tell her how you feel. Some girls want to know a guy is interested before they make up their own minds. It may not be fair for you to have to make the first move, but sometimes it happens. If you like her, let her know. If you think a girl likes you but you don’t return the feeling, let her know you aren’t interested and then give her the space to deal with it in her own way.
All women are not the same. It’s never easy to know if a girl likes you. Spend some time with her and get to know her. If she’s interested, she will let you know once she feels comfortable that she can trust you and that you return the interest.

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